Saturday, January 7, 2012

Please Don't Tell Me You Know How I Feel

Reading though the SANDS SA newsletter a little while ago, I came across this poem that resonated with me quite strongly. Mostly because I am a changed person these days. Very different to who I used to be.
It was written by some friends of a couple who had lost their little grandson to a cerebral bleed shortly after birth. Jonah' story made me cry. So did this poem.


Please don't tell me you know how I feel,
unless you have lost your child too.
Please don't tell me my broken heart will heal,
because that is just not true.
Please don't tell me my son is in a better place,
though it is true, I want him here with me.
Don't tell me someday I'll hear his voice, see his face,
beyond today I cannot see.
Don’t tell me it is time to move on,
because I cannot.
Don’t tell me to face the fact he is gone,
because denial is something I can't stop.
Don't tell me to be thankful for the time I had,
because I wanted more.
Don't tell me when I am my old self you will be glad,
I'll never be as I was before.

What you can tell me is you will be here for me,
that you will listen when I talk of my child.
You can share with me my precious memories,
you can even cry with me for a while.
And please don't hesitate to say his name,
because it is something I long to hear everyday.
Friend, please realize that I can never be the same,
but if you stand by me, you may like the new person I become someday.

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  15. I am very much delighted. To every viewers that is reading this,i want to inform the public of how me got cured from fibroid virus. i have been suffering from fibroid 3 years ago, and i have also taken treatment from my doctor but no way out,few weeks back i came on the internet to see if i will be able to get any information as to curing this disease, on my search i saw various testimony of people who was healed from fibroid by the good doctor, call Dr oriane. without any hesitation, i contacted his email: droriane6@gmail.com and i wrote him and and he guided me,i asked him for solutions and he started the remedies for me and i started using the medicine, after the period of 31 days given to me by Dr oriane i was completely cured no traces was found on my body. So dear viewer why wasting your time living with this infection? you can contact him now he is able to cure this disease, contact his Email: droriane6@gmail.com   

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